Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Kinship

My Kinship Chart
1. I will give a brief introduction of my interviewee. I decided to do my kinship post and interview on my aunt (my father's sister). Her name is Norma Garcia-Dharkus. She is 39 years old, and she has been working for a computer software company for almost 15 years. She is of Hispanic and Caucasian ethnic background. She is a mother of three boys of ages 14,6, and a newborn baby boy. She is fluent in English and Spanish. She was born and raised in Pomona, California.

2. When I conducted this interview, everything went so smooth. There was no awkwardness at all. I believe what really helped the interview not being awkward was that my aunt and I are really close. I can talk to her about anything, and she can talk to me about anything.If there were to be awkwardness in the interview, I believe the outcome of the interview was going to a lot different , and I might not have gotten the results I wanted. It would be different if I interviewed someone who is not related to me, because they would have not told me private information which would have affected the thoroughness of the interview.

3. We discussed that both my grandfathers from my mom and dad's side are deceased, and both my grandmothers from both sides are still very much healthy. Attitudes towards the elder and the youngest are equal, we think it's important to consider everyone in the family. What I can see, from my kinship chart, family trend is really small, I observed that both sides of my family are no bigger than five individuals in the family (dad, mom, and three children). Both sides of the family have different ethnic backgrounds.

4. Family members on my mom's side of the family are more to themselves and shy which I think might be why we do not socialize with them like my dad's family. What is really strange, My family doesn't really communicate nor socialize with my mom's side of the family, and we just don't know why. Both sides of the family live in Southern California, but I tend to socialize more with my dad's family than my mom's family. As for knowing family members more, I believe I know more about my father's family than I do of my mother's family as well as the family history. The ones that influence decisions for family matters are the fathers in the family. I believe they are more "old school", and so the fathers are like the head of the house. Family members are not treated differently whether you're born into the family or married to the family, they are not treated differently. . I have not observed attitudes based upon genders within my family.

6 comments:

  1. Your comments on who your family socializes with more (your dad's side of the family). If there aren't any obvious issues that might explain this, it is possible that this might be a natural paternalistic trend in your dad's family that he tended to follow without even realizing it.

    You are exactly right that interviewing someone you are unrelated to might make it difficult to get private/personal information from them, but then again, sometimes family members may also feel uncomfortable saying negative things about family members with a relative where as they might be more comfortable with a perfect stranger. It can go both ways.

    Well done.

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    1. Yeah, it might be a possibility that there is paternalistic trend in my dad's side of the family, without any of us realizing.
      Thank you Professor Rodriguez.

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  2. I agree with you Jessie. I think its a matter of how close you are between the interviee and you. And interviewing family members is easier than interviewing a person not related to you. However, it takes courage to interview someone whom thats not related to you and what more challenging is you deal with a person thats totally has different views from you. Nice Post!

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    1. I believe if the interviewee was not a relative, the interviewee would have geld back private and personal information thus influencing the interview. Thanks!

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  3. It's interesting that you said, "The ones that influence decisions for family matters are the fathers in the family. I believe they are more "old school", and so the fathers are like the head of the house." When you say "old school" are you referring to a way of living are a way of treating people?

    When I think of "old school" I think of Fathers that are very demanding and over-protective. And also not understanding of different ways of thinking and ways of doing things.

    I found my interview with someone that was familiar was less awkward and fun. It was good that you got to intact with her in an intimate type of situation with your Aunt. Was there anything about your Aunt that you found out new?

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  4. No, just in general, my father and uncles make majority of the income for their household, so making them the decision makers. No, they are "old school" in that way, but not demanding or over protecting at all.

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